 Discover the advantages of planning for postpartum and how it can positively impact your well-being and the well-being of your baby.
Understanding Postpartum: What to Expect The postpartum period, also known as the fourth trimester, refers to the time after childbirth when the birthing person's body undergoes physical and emotional changes as it recovers from pregnancy and childbirth. Understanding what to expect during this period can help new parents navigate the challenges and transitions that come with it. Physically, postpartum parents may experience symptoms such as vaginal bleeding, soreness, breast engorgement, and fatigue. Emotionally, hormonal changes can lead to mood swings, postpartum blues, and in some cases, postpartum depression. It's important for parents to know that these experiences are normal and temporary, and that seeking support and planning ahead can make the postpartum period more manageable. The Importance of Postpartum Planning Postpartum planning involves preparing for the physical, emotional, and practical aspects of the postpartum period. It is crucial because it helps new parents prioritize their own well-being and the well-being of their baby. By having a plan in place, parents can ensure that they have the necessary support, resources, and information to navigate the challenges of the postpartum period. Planning for postpartum can help parents address their physical recovery needs, such as scheduling medical check-ups, arranging for postpartum care, and establishing a healthy routine. It also involves preparing for the emotional changes and challenges that may arise, such as seeking counseling or joining support groups. Additionally, postpartum planning includes making arrangements for social support, such as enlisting help from family and friends, or considering professional services like postpartum doulas or lactation counselors. By actively planning for postpartum, families can reduce stress, increase their confidence, and improve their overall well-being during this important period of transition. Physical Benefits of Postpartum Planning Engaging in postpartum planning can have numerous physical benefits for new parents. By prioritizing self-care and addressing their physical recovery needs, birthing people can promote healing and regain their strength more effectively. This may include establishing a healthy diet and exercise routine, scheduling regular medical check-ups, and addressing any lingering physical discomfort or concerns. Postpartum planning can also help parents navigate common physical challenges such as breast/chestfeeding difficulties, sleep deprivation, and managing postpartum weight. By having a plan in place, parents can seek timely support, professional guidance, and resources to address these issues, which can significantly impact their overall physical well-being. Mental and Emotional Benefits of Postpartum Planning Postpartum planning not only addresses the physical aspects of recovery but also focuses on the mental and emotional well-being of new parents. By acknowledging and preparing for the emotional changes and challenges that may arise during the postpartum period, parents can better cope with and navigate these experiences. Having a postpartum plan in place allows parents to identify potential sources of support, such as counseling services, support groups, or trusted friends and family members. This can help reduce feelings of isolation, anxiety, and postpartum mood disorders. Additionally, postpartum planning can involve creating a self-care routine that prioritizes mental and emotional well-being, such as incorporating relaxation techniques, journaling, or engaging in activities that bring joy and fulfillment. By taking proactive steps to address their mental and emotional health, parents can enhance their overall well-being and create a positive postpartum experience. Social Support and Postpartum Planning Social support plays a crucial role in the postpartum period, and including it in the planning process can greatly benefit new parents. By enlisting the help of family, friends, or professional services, parents can ensure they have the necessary support network to assist them during this transitional phase. Postpartum planning may involve discussing and arranging for practical support, such as help with household chores, meal preparation, or childcare. It can also include identifying emotional support systems, such as trusted individuals who can provide a listening ear, offer advice, or simply be there to provide comfort and encouragement. Having a solid social support system in place can alleviate stress, reduce feelings of overwhelm, and promote a sense of community during the postpartum period. It allows parents to focus on their own recovery and bonding with their baby, knowing that they have a network of support to lean on when needed.
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It is such an honor to be invited to the birth of a baby. Whether you are the soon to be grandparents, auntie or best friend, to be there for such a special time in the expectant family's life is truly special. With that great honor also comes the great responsibility to help keep the birth environment safe, secure and one that will allow the pregnant person to labor the way they need and desire. The people around the laboring person can have a huge influence on the labor, the birth and the entire experience. There are so many things you can do to help the family during this time and there are somethings that, even though well intentioned, might discolor the experience for the new parents.
Let's break down what it means to be a good support person. First, understanding that your title is support person, whether the laboring person has a doula or partner or both you were invited for some sort of support. If you can understand that you are half way there. You aren't there to simply watch, birth is not a spectator sport, you are an active participant. Please talk to the pregnant family before the birth and ask what role do they see you playing and how can you be the best comfort and support. Ask if they are taking a childbirth education class and maybe you can join them. While you are chatting also talk about the birth plan, what are their hopes and dreams for the birth and respect their choices. You may also find that you might need to help them advocate for themselves or remind them of their choices. If you feel you can not respect their choices or at least can't stay silent about your opinion maybe you could wait in the waiting room until after the baby is born. So you are at the birth place, you are wearing your support person badge of honor and the laboring person is experiencing a significant amount of discomfort, what do you do? You support and encourage, not pity. Sitting there, staring at the laboring person with a sad face and telling them to just get the epidural when you know that not what the family's wishes are is not good support. You are basically telling them to give up their dreams. Yeah, birth can be hard, it can be uncomfortable but the family hopefully already knew that. When things get tough that's when your job as support person kicks into effect. You have the power to change things with a few words. There are tons of great things a support person can say but the easiest is, YOU CAN DO THIS! Telling them that you are proud of them, that they are strong, that you love them. These encouraging words are better than gold and can really change things from feeling like throwing in the towel to feeling rejuvenated and confident. The labor is now progressing but you are starting to get a bit tired, nervous, anxious and that can effect the expectant family. The laboring person can pick up all sorts of energy while in this raw, laboring state. Just as your positivity and support can be contagious and bring the family up, bad vibes can bring a person down. You should prepare yourself that labor can be long. If you are feeling worn out just step out of the room and give yourself a breather, grab a coffee and something to eat and go back feeling renewed. Sometimes taking a walk outside, or a few minutes of meditation and you can support the laboring person better. Make sure you have things you need to be comfortable, a sweater, a toothbrush and snacks. If you feel that you are too anxious to be proper support during or better yet, before the labor begins because of your own personal experience be honest with the expectant family. They will appreciate you not wanting to alter their birth environment and you might be a better support to them that way. As a doula we try to anticipate a laboring person needs, all support people can help by looking for the needs of the family. If the birthing partner looks tired see if they would like to step out and get a bite to eat. Sometimes the partner feels obligated to stay but they need support too. Giving them permission to go and have a breather will allow them to come back a little fresher and able to support their partner better. A support person can model breathing to the laboring person, suggest position change or make sure they have a drink or lip balm if their lips are dry. If they need a hair band or lotion get that for them with out asking. Trying to read them and get them what they need so they don't have to think, keep them in Laborland and focused on what they need to do. If they are having a contraction try not to bother the laboring person with questions or touch. If you are told to stop talking, touching, or anything else just stop and don't take it personal. There are so many things going on in a pregnant person and it is hard to sort that all out in labor. You many be doing some back rubbing that is awesome one minute and then its annoying, its ok, just stop and don't resume unless asked. This is also a great time to tell you that this experience is the expectant family's experience that you were invited to be part of. The news of the labor and birth and all details that go along with that are the family's to share with the world. This is the most fun news to spread and it should be the person who had to work the hardest that gets to announce it. The worst thing is telling someone about your new baby and they say, "I know, your mom told me!" Supporting a laboring person is a huge honor and responsibility, its a full time job there will probably be very little time to spend on your phone or laptop anyway. If you want to share the special news with anyone make sure your have the permission of the new parents and NEVER announce it on social media before the parents. After the baby is born the family still needs you. They might even need you more now as they navigate parenthood. There are so many ways you can offer support after birth, from picking up some groceries to dropping off a meal to just hanging out with baby while the exhausted parents nap or shower. A support person is so special to the family, you will always be part of their birth story. You can say you have know their baby since they were 1 second old! What a terrifically special person you are! |
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